Retirement gifts for Mom or Dad that fit the next chapter

By Dustin and Gabi, the founders of EverTold · Updated

Good retirement gifts for a parent look forward to the time they finally have: a first trip, a class in something they always wanted to learn, a standing day with the grandkids, or EverTold, which gives them the chance to tell the story of their working life and everything before it, for the whole family.

Retirement is the first time in decades your parent has time that belongs entirely to them. The best gifts help fill it with what they care about.

An older husband and wife playing cards at their wooden kitchen table

Retirement ideas

  1. EverTold: the story of their working life, and everything before it

    Retirement is a natural moment to look back. EverTold asks out loud about first jobs, hard bosses and proud moments, and every answer becomes a narrated story the family keeps.

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  2. The first trip, booked

    The place they said they would go when they had time. Book the dates.

  3. A class in something new

    Painting, woodworking, a language or music lessons.

  4. A standing day with the grandkids

    Every Wednesday, school pickup and dinner. Both sides will love it.

  5. Their workplace, framed

    A photo of the building, the truck or the classroom where they spent their career.

  6. Letters from former colleagues

    Collect a few notes from the people they worked with.

  7. A garden, started

    Raised beds, tools and a first round of planting, done together.

  8. A volunteer day together

    Serve a meal or build a house with them at a cause they care about.

  9. A good chair and a reading list

    For the books they never had time for, chosen by the family.

Hear what it sounds like: one story, two listeners

Grandma told this story once. Here is how two people in her family hear it.

  • as she grew up hearing it, heard by Sarah, her daughter

    The cow that followed Uncle Jimmy home

    The summer your mom turned eleven, your uncle Jimmy came walking up the farm road at dusk with a brown cow behind him. He swore she had followed him home. Your mom knew better: she had seen the bucket of feed swinging from his hand.

  • at story time, heard by Noah, her grandson

    Great-Uncle Jimmy and the cow

    A long time ago, when Grandma was a little girl, her big brother, your great-uncle Jimmy, came home with a cow! “She followed me,” he said. But Grandma saw his bucket of cow food. The cow was following the bucket!

What Grandma actually said: Jimmy swore that cow followed him home. She did not. She followed the bucket.

Ideas for every kind of retiree

  • For a dad who loves to tell stories: EverTold, starting with his first job.
  • For a mom who has everything: the class in something new.
  • For parents far away: the first trip, with a stop at your house.
  • For new grandparents retiring: the standing day with the grandkids.

How to choose

  • Look forward: a gift for the next chapter, not a plaque for the last one.
  • Give them time with people: grandkids, friends, you.
  • Keep the story of the career, while the details are fresh.

What only EverTold does

  • Each relative hears the story from their own place in the family

    When Mom tells a story about her brother, her daughter hears it as a story about "your uncle" and her grandson hears "your great-uncle", read aloud in a warm storyteller’s voice. Every listener gets the version that makes sense to them.

  • Story time for the grandkids

    A grandchild can tap a story at bedtime and hear it retold for a child: the same true story, simpler words, a gentler pace. Adults get the faithful telling.

  • A real conversation, not a writing assignment

    EverTold asks a question out loud, listens, and follows up, like a patient grandchild on a phone call. It waits for them to finish. Nobody has to write a thing.

  • Their real voice, kept

    The recordings of their answers are saved privately for the family, right next to the written stories, so you keep the way they actually sound.

  • Handed down for generations

    A family library that keeps growing, paid for once. No subscription, no renewal, nothing to cancel.

  • The family can ask for more

    Anyone in the family can send a question like "Mom, tell me about the farm". It goes to the real person, and their answer comes back as a new story.

The EverTold Forever Promise: One payment, no renewals, for as long as EverTold operates. Download everything any time. If EverTold ever closes, you get at least 6 months’ notice and then 90 days to download everything before anything is deleted. Read the full promise

A note from Dustin and Gabi

We are a husband and wife, and our family speaks two languages: Gabi’s side Portuguese, Dustin’s side English. When our kids asked about their great-grandfather in Brazil, who left home for the city as a teenager to build a life from nothing, we realized the details that make a person come alive had already been lost. He passed away before we asked him the questions that mattered most.

We still have parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles on both sides, with decades of stories we had never thought to ask about. So we built EverTold for our own family first, and we write these guides the way we choose gifts for them.

The stories we lost from our great-grandfather were the ones about building a life from nothing. Work stories are worth keeping.

Read our story

Give EverTold

EverTold$99

One storyteller, a lifetime family library, paid once.

EverTold for Two$149

Two storytellers, usually Mom and Dad, sharing one family library, paid once.

One payment, no subscription. 30 day refund. Delivered by email on the day you choose.

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Questions

What is a good retirement gift for dad?

Something for the time he finally has: a first trip, a workshop class, a standing day with the grandkids, or EverTold, which keeps the story of his working life for the family.

What do you get your mom when she retires?

A class in something she always wanted to learn, a trip, a garden started together, or EverTold, so her story is kept in her own words.

Is EverTold a subscription?

No. It is one payment for lifetime access, with no renewals.

Does my parent need to be good with technology?

No. They open the gift email, tap Start and talk. There is no app and no password.

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